I'm not doing what I WANT to make myself HAPPY, I'm doing what I NEED to do to be happy. Yan kase laging misconception about happiness eh, that it only includes what we WANT in life. Of course tao tayo, madami tayong gusto. Ako nga lang kung pwede lang dakutin lahat ng tinda sa mga botique ng mall, gagawin ko. Of course it will make me happy having all of it, kaso the thing here is that I don't need all of it (at wala din akong perang pambili pala).
Di ba? Unless you don't know the difference between the two, mahirap maging masaya. Kase never ending ang contentment ng tao eh. iPhone pa nga lang for example di ba? Daming version na ang lumabas, but people is craving for more.
We don't have everything, but we have everything we NEED. Alam ko nabasa mo na toh kung saan mang pader ng banyo. Kaya nga minsan may mga gusto tayo na hindi natin nakukuha, pero nasa atin na naman lahat eh, lahat ng kailangan natin. Because God knows everything we ever need, we just have to make use of it wisely.
Para mas maliwanag, lets just say na I'm not just talking about materialistic things. Madalas kase sa minsan, yung mga material na bagay naman eh temporary happiness lang ang hatid sa tin, so why fund so much for it? How about focusing on what we do to/for other people? How about pondering kung sino at ano nga ba tayo? How 'bout life's value? How do we need to work out with life to be happy?
Dito na rin papasok yung pag-appreciate natin sa maliliit na bagay. Simulan na nga lang natin sa magulang di ba? Yun na nga lang eh, yung mga taong yun na nanjan sa buhay natin, di natin mapansin, di natin maapreciate. Di ba? Pero nanjan sila... kaya sila nanjan kase for a reason na para din naman sa tin. But what? We are taking them too much for granted, worst sila pa sisisihin natin for what had happened with our lives.. emo-emo ka pa sa tabi di ba? Make other people happy and I guarantee it will make you happy as well.
Kaya Mama and Dadi, sorry, because I've been that kid for so long, someone who don't appreciate instead blame you with my pity life.
Uyy, but in the end I'm not saying don't do what you LIKE, pwede pa rin syempre, walang pipigil! But learn to appreciate every small bit of it.... para maging happy, right? Yun lang siguro ang key.
So anyway. Maybe that's all for now! Sana may sense for a first post.
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Super sensible ang first post. Eto ang mga namiss ko sayo. The same material that leads me to Kamilshake bukod pa mga madaming tawa na napag-share namin ng dati mong blog.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman talaga masama magkaroon ng maraming gusto,human nature na yun. Ang dapat lang alam mo kung anong uunahin mo at yung kailangan mo.
Kung minsan di din maiiwasan mag emo-emo, hehe.. pero tama na dapat laging iisipin ang mga blessings instead of what are missing. Sa tuwing down ako, kung ayoko ma-consume ng emotions ko, iniisip ko lang kung gaano ako kaswerte sa family ko at kay jed. Pero mya times talaga na ang sarap lang mag-emo. haha..
I love the first post. Sana maging regular blogger ka na ulet. :) hehe.. Should I say Welcome Back? :)
@mayen Thank you so much sa sensible na comment din! nakuh! infairnes! Sige gora na! I-welcome back mo na ako. Babalik na talaga ako. Sobrang na-miss ko mag-blog! Mag puyatan na tayo kung magpupuyatan!!!! Thanks Mayen!!!
ReplyDeletecongrats sa bagong blog kamila!- rico de buco
ReplyDelete@rico de buco salamat rico sa pagdalaw!!! :)
ReplyDeleteAng ganda ng topic Kamila! It really make sense at isa itong inspirasyon para sa mga makakabasa. Welcome sa new blog mo. More Power!
ReplyDeleteNice piece, you should write more often.
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@kiko Thank you kuya kiko!!! ikaw talaga!! Appreciative ka!! Hope nakaka-inspire nga! Hahaha!!! thank you sa support!!
ReplyDelete@Kuya ko Hahahahahaha!!! Yan ang comment na malupet!!! Ayan.. lalo nag-ppeak ang excitement sa pagbblog! hindi na makaligo man lang.
"I'm doing what I NEED to do to be happy." --- exactly! this year, ganyan din ang naging realization ko.
ReplyDeletemas naappreciate ko na ngayon yung mga maliliit at simpleng bagay. though marami pa din problema na talaga namang nakakastress, nagdadasal lang ako at iniisip ko pa lang yung mga 'bagay' na meron ako ngayon like my family and friends, then voila.. okay na ulit ang lahat. it's just a matter of contentment di ba?
@carlo well said!!! super kapag narealize mo na yan.. wala na yung everyday kabadtripan sa mga maliliit na bagay pati!! salamat carlo!!!
ReplyDeleteNaaaks! Very sensible yung first post. Waay better than mine. hihi.. Kakamiss din yung mga ganitong klaseng post mo, Kamil. :)
ReplyDeleteIt's the little things that makes life worth living.. kasi madalas, we tend to set them aside because we seek bigger things. But truth is, the little people who do little things for us, the small gestures of love and the small acts of kindness.. those are priceless. Kaya dapat, appreciate, appreciate, appreciate. hehe..
Andami kong sinabi.. Eh di welcome back!!
Because God knows everything we ever need, we just have to make use of it wisely. - - - tomoooh!!
ReplyDeleteano ang silbi ng yaman sa mundo kung wala namang nagmamamhal sayo....useless...
@Leah Hahaha thanks for another sensible comment din ms.leah.. thanks for following back na..!! weeehhh!!! bonding muli tayo sa blogsphere..
ReplyDelete@ate ko Wow.. quoting ang mga salita!..like ko yan!!ate i misshhhhh you so muchee