Horrible Mondays and TGIF.

I hate just one thing about Ted and Robin’s relationship in How I Met your Mother. I don’t expect everyone to know this TV show, but you are welcome to Google this to find out, because I won’t make an effort to explain further.

They have this very good relationship, and it frustrates me whenever they decide to end that very beautiful thing just because they think their future will not collide perfectly the way they think it should be.

People tend to do this. People tend to run away from the bright wonderful sunshiney day, just because they know it’s going to rain tomorrow. People contemplate so much of what’s going to happen in the next few months, and years, instead of enjoying what’s currently and presently happening.

Not that we shouldn’t think about the best for our future. I just think that we shouldn’t neglect the little things that are right before our eyes just because we are too involve with our future. We know nothing about the future. Even the psychics who sometimes predicts looks like their guessing or cracks me up with their vague and obvious predictions. Things change and will constantly change. We can plan, but we can’t always work things out accurately as we want it to be. There will be a lot of turns, and tripping-off because one of our shoes is untie, and because the bus is late, and because a lot of unexpected and very unplanned things happen everytime around us: like your girlfriend can become pregnant or your Grandma might finally decide that she wants to live the rest of her life in Laos or something. A lot! And we shouldn’t focus our lenses too much on those distant things just because we have 20/20 good eyes (I literally don't).

We have the right to make good memories with the people who comes in and out of our lives and they have the right to enjoy life with us. Things might change, and there will always be a possibility that happiness and excitement will eventually fade. But, if we are constantly envisioning this, we are setting ourselves to worry to things that we are yet to know.

Life is a Yin and Yang, or life is a Ferry’s Wheel (whichever you prefer). We go up and down and round and round, and you get adrenaline rush, and someone laughs, shouts and other cries. There are horrible Mondays and TGIF! Life is just too random, and sometimes we think too much. We think that we can’t cope with its craziness, but we should at least try to just ride, fail and enjoy life. We sometimes miss the whole damn point of living a life.

If you are happy with the person, or friends that you have right now, and those people are also thankful you come by their way, please tell me you are giving a big deal about this right now! Simply be happy and live life with them.