You and I have to Accept the Fact that We're Individuals.

Imagine, there are millions and billions of people in this whole wide world, and everyday you get to interact with these individuals. You don't get  to know everyone, but sometimes you bump at several people on your way to work, sit beside a few passenger in a jeepney and at some point in time you are polite to all of your acquaintance.

I'm sure in your life, you already met someone you really really really hate, like you're thinking, "Why the hell is this person brought to life?". You had maybe fought with another person and until now you're not in good terms with him or her. Sometimes you'll go to your friends and recite all of your hatred, your unluckiness, all the self-pity you got and what's not.

We're like a bunch of grass in this big wide field. We're a lot! A lot a lot! And to even think you and I are just staying in this little portion of the earth. Knowing this, you have to set your expectations. Not every person you meet in your damn life will be perfect enough to fit your every perspective. You will never be able to please everybody! One way or another you're gonna hate someone and someone out there will have to hate you.

Everyone is unique, that's why we call ourselves INDIVIDUALS. We may walk a similar path, but still, it will be a totally different journey, it will produce a totally different story. Everyone have their own good or bad attitude, own principles, own beliefs and so on and on and on. Coz! We're INDIVIDUALS! We get to copy other people because we're to lazy to be unique, but still, we're individuals!

And you and I have to accept that fact! If you're gonna continue hating people for what they do, if you're gonna continue changing yourself or copying other people for the sake of pleasing everybody, then what good does it do? It's a waste of time!

That's why whenever someone quarrel inside the train for the particular reason that she was bumped by another person, I think, 'why the hell are you riding the train lady!'. Or if I'm in Divisoria and another person is complaining how bunch of people are lurking in there and it's pissing him off, I will go, 'go to SM dummy!'

Like, we expect so much, that the people around us and the surrounding we're having will always compliment and will always be what we expect it to be. But sometimes, it's just NOT! And we waste our time dealing with those circumstances which in reality does not help us grow or help us learn even a pinch. We just deal with the nothingness and the ego inside us that we should be treated right and within our beliefs.

Life gives you the unexpected. And you have to deal with it in a way that you will grow. Deal with it in a way that the people around you can grow. And finally, deal with it being your own true self.

People may be unkind, just be kind 

 They may cheat, just be honest 

 They may forget your deeds, just do good.

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